Thursday, October 25, 2007

A note to my friend...

Bites Tale : The debut concert by Jesselton Philharmonic Orchestra is a great success... lot's of the audience were asking about when is the next concert... i heard it should be sometime near christmas.. dunno how true is it.. didn't managed to take any photo as my camera is not with me.. another 2 days and i'll get my camera back... can't wait!

Received a call from my friend, she sounded differently... i guess she was holding her tears... she cried not long after...

Dear friend,

If you feel like crying.... just cry...

But, never do anything that will hurt yourself and also others...

He made a choice...

And you should respect it...

That way you'll gain his respect... and also you respect yourself...

You've your dignity...

Stop calling or sms him... he will hate it if he already said he wants to stop the relationship...

Though he said you'll still be his friend... but you need to give sometime to him and to yourself...

Like what you've told me, he sounded rude and impatient when you called... all you get to hear from him is "i'm busy now"then put down the phone... there, you should get the message..

I know i'm harsh in the telephone... but all this while... you've been trying to "secure" the relationship while he .... stray...

It's not worth it... although u think that he's unfair to you... but still... what's the point of forcing him to be with you while his mind or even heart is with another girl?

Let him go and give yourself an opportunity to find another better and suitable guy.... give others a chance to find you and get to know you too...

Remember,

Before you can love others... you must love yourself 1st!

3 comments:

WokkingMum said...

Hope your friend will get over it soon. I agree with you ... must love yourself. Must live your life happier even without him. There are still friends who cares .. like you.

Take care, Meatball's friend.

Terri @ A Daily Obsession said...

time will heal. there's a better one waiting for ur friend, someone worth all the pain n tears!pray for her n be with her. one year from now, she'll be laughing about the whole thing. i know, i helped somebody thru it b4...

esther said...

you did the right thing...being there for her and you're one good friend she has!

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